I've been fine, but focused on some things. One of them is to help my relative to move to a new place to change his life. He really thinks he needs to restart the life strongly.
He told me that he had been obsessed with something bad in his spirit for more than 20 years and nobody could understand it, which makes him live like in the hell.
However, while paying attention to his condition, he can go on by himself at his pace to move to Hokkaido. I'm very surprised and impressed at his attitude.
During this weekend, he has to apply for a new apartment and a moving company that he's about to decide, booking of a hotel for a fer days and a flight ticket, and order of the electric appliances...There are many thing hard for him, but he told he would do everything by himself.
I simply and honestly cheer him up until he finishes everything.
I hope him to live in Hokkaido safely, adjust the life circumstances around him there and be able to spend his new life without problems and difficulties. It's our aim now, and when it comes true, it could give him some conference. I hope he step up bit by bit from it.
I'll go to help to his house to pack his luggage and clean there as he wants tomorrow.
There are many people who are suffered from mental difficulties here. We don't know when we would have some suddenly. Some people have difficulties from a baby, others have while they are grown up.
Of course, there are psychiatric hospitals here too, but the treatments and others' understanding of mental patients in old days were not suitable and good. Recently they have been changed and found how to deal with.
So it's easier to find difficulties at younger ages now and they learn how to go through. That's my specialty and treat many different types of kids at school.
Everybody has his/her own difficulties, I think. I have a lot of demerits in myself, but also have many merits as well. I think we have to understand our personalities at the age as young as we are and obtain the way to get along with our difficulties by parents' letting kids challenge something new a lot and trying to solve problems by themselves.
We have the problem of the declining birth rate in Japan. Kids have less opportunity to challenge and get it over by themselves. Many parents take too much attention to their kids, I think.
I'm also one of the parents, and have to keep it in my mind from now on too.
今、新天地で人生をやり直そうとしている親戚のお手伝いをしているのですが、明日、引っ越しの準備の日、ようやくここまで漕ぎ着けることが出来ました。
２０年近く訳の分からない物に取りつかれてしまって、誰からも理解してもらえず、地獄のような状態やったと言っていた親戚ですが、今回の北海道移住計画に関しては、自分の体調に配慮しながら、自分ペースでボチボチ進めて来れたことに、驚いています。
今週末に荷造りをして、ほぼ狙いを定めているマンションと引っ越し業者の申込み、当面の仮住まい用のホテルとフライトチケット確保、電化製品の注文・・・と一杯やることがある中で、全部自分でやろうとしているので、素直に応援しています。
無事に北海道に移り住み、向こうで生活環境を整えて、普通の生活が出来るようになることが、目下の目標。その目標を達成出来たら、それが自信となり、次のステップに繋がればいいな。
とりあえず、明日は荷造りと住んでいた家の掃除のお手伝いに行ってきます。
